Happy Memorial Day

Cemetery with decorated grave siteIn 1971, Memorial Day was declared a national holiday by an act of Congress to honor those who have died in all American wars. Its origins lie in “Decoration Day”, a time established by the Grand Army of the Republic (GAR) for the nation to decorate the graves of the war dead with flowers.

In years past, we spent our Memorial Days cooking out with the family…while it was a day to remember those who gave the ultimate sacrifice in battle for our Country, we never really did any physical act to recognize them. We prayed and my father hung the American Flag in the front of the house, but as far as I can remember that’s all we did. We didn’t decorate any graves with flowers.

Yesterday at church, my children’s Sunday School teacher took the kids around the cemetery and stopped at every tombstone that bore an American flag. She encouraged us along with the rest of the congregation at the end of the church service to remember the fallen soldiers on this special day.

This year, I’m starting a new tradition with my family. We have fields of yellow buttercups on our property and our family is going to go out and pick baskets full to take with us to our local cemetery. And we are going to decorate the graves of those who died for our freedom.


If you don’t have a family tradition for this National Holiday, I encourage you to give this idea a try. If you don’t have fields of flowers in your yard, then consider seeking out some veterans who will be distributing artificial poppies in recognition of their fallen comrades.

“In 1924, a poppy factory was built in Pittsburgh, Pa., providing a reliable source of poppies and a practical means of assistance to veterans. Today, veterans at Department of Veterans Affairs medical facilities and veterans homes help assemble the poppies, which are distributed by veterans service organizations throughout the country.

“Donations received in return for these artificial poppies have helped countless veterans and their widows, widowers and orphans over the years. The poppy itself continues to serve as a perpetual tribute to those who have given their lives for the nation’s freedom.”


“To ensure the sacrifices of America ’s fallen heroes are never forgotten, in December 2000, the U.S. Congress passed and the president signed into law “The National Moment of Remembrance Act,” P.L. 106-579, creating the White House Commission on the National Moment of Remembrance. The commission’s charter is to “encourage the people of the United States to give something back to their country, which provides them so much freedom and opportunity” by encouraging and coordinating commemorations in the United States of Memorial Day and the National Moment of Remembrance.

“The National Moment of Remembrance encourages all Americans to pause wherever they are at 3 p.m. local time on Memorial Day for a minute of silence to remember and honor those who have died in service to the nation. As Moment of Remembrance founder Carmella LaSpada states: “It’s a way we can all help put the memorial back in Memorial Day.”

We plan on being at my parents’ house, cooking out at that time, but I will be sure to make certain we all stop precisely at 3PM for a moment of silence and remember as an extended family the price paid for us to gather freely on this beautiful spring day.

God bless you and your family, and may God continue to bless America.


2 thoughts on “Happy Memorial Day

  1. Carrie Wigal Post author

    We (my littlest ones and I) started out picking yellow buttercups, but then my oldest branched out into the hayfield to pick wildflowers (daisies, clover and other variations of yellow flowers) and my husband combed the edge of our field bordering the street for more wildflowers. After gathering a few buckets worth, we ventured back into the house to assemble bouquets as a family. We made up about 20 of them along with two large tumbler cups of flower petals (roses, buttercups, & hydrangea) and packed up our van to head out to the cemetery.

    When we started walking the grounds of our small church, we knew immediately we did not have enough flowers, but we dressed up as many as we could with our blossoms, stopping at each site to recognize the names and dates of each veteran. We saw confederate soldiers, WWI and WWII veterans, and Vietnam & Korean War veterans. I believe there was also a Desert Storm veteran there. As for any Iraqi or Afghanistan war heroes, I don’t honestly know.

    It was a meaningful experience for my husband and I, and I’m so glad we did this.

    We truly are blessed to be living in America and I thank our veterans from the bottom of my heart for their personal sacrifice for me and my family.

  2. davidlanderson

    “It was a meaningful experience for my husband and I, and I’m so glad we did this.

    We truly are blessed to be living in America and I thank our veterans from the bottom of my heart for their personal sacrifice for me and my family.”



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